All of mothers little creations are here to re-produce, you may have a young male there placed by her side, its hard to say.
I have several mated Pigeons out in the loft, some are successful breeders, some aren't.
We have female Cockatiels here that will lay eggs just hearing the males song, they don't even need to be near the males.
We love our birds, but there are no-nos when it comes to stimulation, touch (should-could) be limited to the head and neck area, when stroking any bird the full length of there body will stimulate them and one will see mating activity shortly after doing so.
Nesting material, this material can be anything in caged birds, in the wild, birds round up sticks and hay, straw, grass and what humans leave behind such as cloth and string and such things.
Caged birds and TOYS, we have found that any toy provided that has fringe or cotton strings, even those heavy ropes wrapped with cotton strings will stimulate a lonely male and or female.
Those cute little buddy huts we humans provide our birds to sleep in, these huts can prove to be very stimulating to a lonely bird that needs to do what mother has intended them to do, mate and re-produce.
By all means, birds do bond with there human, when there (mating) needs are not met, one may find a very aggressive bird, as if there saying, "hey there's more to do here".
The bird may begin to "bite" and there are many other issues that will follow when the birds needs are not met.
With the chronic egg layer, one will find many forms of stimulation, (sun light) (warmth) even a spray misting can stimulate.
There's a (upset) in the birds natural (re-productive) system, most birds re-produce each year, they find a mate and make babies, now lets take that ability away, then lets add human stimulation such as stroking, kissing, and there are other forms, then add frilly toys and such things that can tell the bird "hey, I can make a nest out of that", or "I can rub my little behind against that to Stimulate myself".
Mankind goes through the very same issues, a lonely human may resort to Masturbation, even Rape to full fill his her needs.
As humans we do our best to teach our children about sex, we try and teach them to be independent first, find a good job, buy a home, get settled, then think about a mate and babies.
Build the nest first...then the babies....
Now try telling that to a bird that could live 30 yrs caged up with no mate!
Oh, you will find those (that know more) they will say it can be done, would you like that to happen to you?
To spend your entire life alone?
Its a crazy world Deb, We can learn all there is to learn about (stimulation) and try and avoid it, or we can do the (I will find my friend a mate thing) and then scream when there's birds all over the place.
My father once told me at a very young age, Arty, no animal was intended to be kept as a pet, "now our home is full of birds".
and 2 (kitties).
I know you wish to "meet your birds needs", but hopefully understanding that "you will never completely meet there needs", will help you to help them.
Imagine a completely different world where you the Human are not dominate, you are not at the top of the food chain, and the species that is has just placed you in a cage, took your ability to mate with your own species away, imagine the frustration as you do your best to tell your capture what your needs are!
I would love to end the PET trade, no animal should be kept as a pet.....but this will never happen.......
In the mean time, I fully understand, "I can't meet all there needs", but, "I sure can try".
