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04-04-2008, 12:32 PM
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#8 | | | Re: looking Well Jenna, the best thing I can do is wish you luck. Sometimes a dream bird can turn into a nightmare. What is it that a blue throat can offer you than a tiel cant. I just ask you be honest with yourself, your limits, and your lifestyle. Im not afraid to admit, if I could go back I would not own birds. Great sacrifice has been made to my freedom, and often my sanity trying to deal with screaming, mess, and being tied down by these guys. Do I love them? More than words can say, I sure do. But now I have 4 kids for life. At least human babies grow up and move out. I didnt listen though. When people told me birds scream. I said "I can handle it" That came after spending hours and days on end in a local bird store trying to understand these creatures. I was bit to bleeding, got pooped on, and left with headache, still convinced I could handle it. Things changed when the bird came home with me. I think subliminally, I knew I could walk away from a store and leave the noise and mess behind. Once it came home with me my world went upside down. Now,I realize, you are not me. The only intention I have here is to make sure you know what you are getting into. Have you considered buying your friends bird? At least with an older bird you have a better idea of what you are getting to some extent.
The downside of being a group of people who love our birds is this. It can be viewed as fun, having a pretty bird, we take pics and videos. It looks easy and kinda cool to have a big bird that talks and kisses and makes cool noises. The dark side, is the amount of birds that end up unwanted, just for being a bird. No one gets it until the bird is home with you. Granted, it works out for a lot of people. They have the bird for years, and had the patience to allow this creature to somewhat run the house and their lives all that time and it made them happy. This takes a certain kind of person. And if that person isnt you (in general) thats ok too.
The only thing I ask, is please, take your time with this decision. An be prepared for just how much it will alter your life.
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04-04-2008, 01:17 PM
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#10 | | | Re: looking Jenna, since one is unable to hear voice inflection in forum, I just want to drive home that I say this all softly from my heart. Yes, I am outspoken. But I say it because I care all the way around. I pass no personal judgment on your ability to care for a bird or intend to suggest you will rehome it. Look at it this way, if I tell you to not speed through an intersection without stopping at the light, it would be to warn you of what could happen right? We all know how that one could turn out. With birds, not everyone knows until they are in it. The expense, sacrifice, mess, blah blah, all I said before. I urge all young people, before you spend on a commitment that will last a lifetime, make a 5 year plan. You gotta do, what ya gotta do, before you can do what ya wanna do! Spend that money on a down payment on a house if you dont own one, buy a mutual fund, invest in your future. Then, when you have no concern over having a job, plan on a big demanding bird that cost a ton to keep. I say this all from a warm place I hope you understand why Im trying to talk you down. Ill get off my soap box now. Sorry to be a mom. |
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