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Originally Posted by homebird I agree with Cindy. I thought so much about the new Budgie i was a wreck. I almost got a girl Budgie & wish i had some days. Laker is such a 'dude'. Being older he really isn't into the younger Budgie but they love to fly & explore together. Poor Rio is a lot like Jerry & a little like Pogo in that he loves to play & is quite the gymnast. If Rio was a female he would be more interesting for Laker & he won't be flying off all the time to be by himself.
Why 3 - typical 2's company & 3's a crowd? If they were all males would it still be a problem??
When i was looking for another Budgie i did look at the local shelter & local ads. Lots have a 'pair' for sale or a couple {males}. I even thought a pair would be OK - as Laker could have company but still be my special pal - i thought. But i worried about trouble. Lots of worry.
We got our second Budgie from a breeder because in the back of my mind [+ my husband wasn't very supportive] I knew quarantine wasn't going to go well. Laker & Rio were very excited to know that there was another Budgie nearby. Quarantine lasted 7 days or so - Laker just flew into the living room to find him. I had been letting the baby out in our son's room for flying & for taming time.
As long as the new Budgie is healthy you just have to accept there friendship for what it will be. Even if you get a female there is no 100% guarantee they'll be friends but as Cindy said it is probable they'll have a more natural relationship. Females can be friendly but are not all so outgoing as a male. If you really just want a friend for Pogo a female might be best???
I love your new cage & hope to see a new Budgie soon. Good luck - I think you know how to pick them. I'm very excited for you.
Personally i'd love to get 2 more....... |
Well I think Laker will be more accepting of the baby when he's grown. It's typical I think same like kids lol. Right now Rio is still cute dorky but not so cute to Laker LOL. That'll change I'm sure when Rio loses his babyishness. Regardless, it's a comfort to both having each other ime. even if Laker wont admit it!
Actually IME hens can be sorta rough on a male, actually. But I'd still get a hen just with caution. It's a requirement I think that they be strong in constitution to do all the mothering and the males just carry out orders more or less so it's tricky but Budgies ime are very accepting and crave the flock. I'd just be careful what hen I picked and match up ages a bit so the grown male doesnt try and force breeding on a baby hen who could get hurt not knowing what's going on. That's almost what happened to Piper.
Right now my budgie hen with lipomas is a trip. She entices the male somehow (not speaking budgie I cant understand lol) then when he tries to be physical with her she half the time lets him (just beak stuff) and the other half she tells him off. She's probably not speaking to him at all but to Piper and Toby in the other room or the outdoor birds but I cant tell. But for a supposedly "sick" bird she is very strong in personality albeit pathetic and weak looking. That's prolly why, she is not 100% and has to take care of herself from any perceived threats or something. But the two are ALWAYS together, I feel sorry for him since he's stuck with a sick wife.
Budgies are usually so much more mild like Tiels but fights can happen under the wrong circumstances like ONE food bowl is not cool, and too small confinement is definitely the worst thing.
2horse could probably give better exact stereotypes since she has a colony and breeds birds sometimes. The other factor is a BIG space so they can escape each other like her beautiful aviary or at least a room or giant cage when they are together.
Another stereotype ime is special mutations are always more high strung. Like albino and lutino so couple that with a hen and you have someone who may be a bit more sensitive and persnickety.
It's hard to guess what Pogo would be like he's so extroverted and fearless. He could go either way at first. LOVE a bird, ignore a bird, love certain birds who knows lol. But I' m 100% sure he and every other budgie will end up happIER with a friend.
Yeah, three is bad and ime it doesnt matter the gender except worse with hens....someone is always odd bird out. Then that bird gets short changed in food, bullying, companionship and stress. I'd only do even numbers strictly.
This may not apply in a BIG flock, I had a ton together in my playpen and it didnt matter but they were in transit so nobody paired up for long.
Homebird maybe in your situation I'd get two hens because if you get a pair all three would be wanting the one hen. So two more males or two hens imo. But never one hen and three boys omg. lol. I notice they even "talk" differently whatever it is they are saying.....