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Originally Posted by homebird I was pretty upset at the time & probably still harbour resentment - which is silly. Even if she meant to be cruel - it was only stuff - I know that. In reality she only saw an odd collection of the weirdest stuff. They kept things of mine I've told them are junk - it is confusing.
People are responsible for their own junk - I never throw out any of my son's stuff - he has to do it.
Recently I threw out all my old music tapes. I haven't had a tape player for 5 years. It almost took my breath away to do it but once it was done a feeling of relief came over me. They were made for me by a variety of freinds & they were like connections to them all. Now they are land fill I know I will still have the memories.
Now for all the letters I've kept.......photos, etc. In truth this stuff will all be reduced not all thrown out probably. |
Ah! A fellow saver! I love you! I have saved every card or letter ever written to me and every thing my boys ever did or even puked on. I did draw the line at their toilet paper, but only because my hubby made me. LOL! Life is precious and I intend to save every minute scrap of it I can!