I would suggest positive reinforcement and have those very special treats handy that she just loves and only gets for a job well done!
I highly recommend Barbara Heidenreich. She is an excellent teacher to teach us how to teach our parrots with positive reinforcement. She has a magazine that's comes out quarterly and she has 2 great teaching DVD's available.
Parrot Behavior and Training #1
The first in our series of Parrot Behavior and Training DVD's, this DVD covers the basic fundamentals of training with positive reinforcement. We give you detailed instructions on how to shape behavior. Our training subjects are companion parrots learning behaviors for the first time. Be the first to experience these special moments of learning captured on film.
NEW! Training for the Veterinary Exam #2
Make you bird’s next visit to the veterinarian stress free! This DVD shows you how to train your parrot to cooperate in his own medical care. Step by step instructions demonstrate how to train each behavior.
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