And the sad thing is, it's just not necessary.
For everyday dilemmas not including forcing, the A part is key I think. Are we setting ourselves up for failure and endangering our birds' physical or psychological health by "wanting" something for ourselves?
Example, I made the mistake of bring Piper Parrotlet home to a house with a bonded Budgie pair. Oh man. I thought she would be friends with him and that his hen was not going to live for long. (wrong again lol)
The B was Piper and the male budgie trying to breed although she was a baby and clueless. And the C was that I forever and ever have to juggle two cages to be in different rooms. And to this day Pipe tries everything she can do to go to him and it's fourteen months later!
We need to examine what we set up ahead of time and it's not that easy. Even someone experienced like me is open to making a ton of mistakes because our experiences BEFORE the mistakes didn't cover this "particular" mistake if you get my point. I kept a ton of birds out and together all the time in my store. (the BB parrots sold so fast I didnt have them in the playpen for long, though and they lived in a cage. So I never really "lived" with them long enough to learn that my Piper/Budgie thing was doomed.)
OK here's this Month's HUGE error I committed.
A. Cindy decides breeding season is over and it's "safe" to leave the Parrotlets in the Budgie room untill 11 am on the weekends "just in case" it ever has to happen they wont freak out.
[ok first mistake is ignoring the hard fact that Parrotlets cannot be in a room with other pairs of any kind of bird]
B. Cindy notices them sitting there all during the morning times staring at the budgie cage which is half covered so they cant see them but they hear them. Cindy falsley assumes this is going great.
C. Cindy finds Toby's neck plucked from Piper around the back of his head and now he has a little egghead and some bare skin.
Is it lead in the cage? Is she sick and onery? Is HE sick and she knows it? Is it not enough protein and she's eating his keratin? Is it too much protein and she's too hyper and breedy? Is it the pellets and she/he's not feeling well and kidneys and liver starting to go? Is it that I havent followed a strict enough natural daylight schedule since they go to roost in the chandelier now by 5 which is very early? Is it I havent changed the inside enough and provided enough new shredding toys? I've been very busy lately and have I ignored them too much and they are too focused on each other much more than earlier this summer?
Enough questions? You can make yourself nuts but I can't have him plucked by her. Bad enough if she plucked herself but NOT HIM.
Well I'm having the cage tested and replaced it already anyway. I'm moving it to a not nesty and different spot during the day.
Mostly everything is different in there and new shredding toys.
I'm extending the nights and decreasing the protein. I'm still giving the pellets since they love them.
I'm giving only distilled water and increasing the baths.
I'm watching her and correct her when I see her go for his neck, correct meaning distract. I notice he barks at her and fends her off so he's not happy about it either.
I'm also giving two different far away food bowls so they dont bicker over the same food item.
Finally I'm spending more time with each so they ignore each other more.
If she continues I'll have labs done and also split them up but am afraid to do so in case she ends up plucking herself, BUT if I see him lose any more feathers there or elsewhere out he comes!
YEP simple ABC, not thought out and hopefully my dumb idea is the entire cause of it. And she'll stop.
