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Originally Posted by Graehstone "......Ask yourselves before you post ANYTHING at all "What is the purpose of this post" if it is honorable and with good intent towards bird and man then do so, if there could be any misinterpretation, then rethink it for you are all adults and know the power of the written word.
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Great poem Mike, sounds heartfelt and well thought out.
Only problem IMO, with what you said - regarding the part I just quoted, is this:
With all the unique personalities we come across in life
(not only on this Board) how are we to
know if there is going to be any "misinterpretation" of what we are saying - especially if we say it in plain and simple educated English, dotting the I
(s) & crossing the T
(s) ? ....... As the ole saying goes: Ya just can't please everyone.
One of the main problems with personalities
(on most if not all boards), I think, is that people really should try their best to not be so cliquey or blindly loyal to "friends" by unfairly attacking someone that one of their "pals" is having some kind of problem with - as all that does it keep the snowball rolling which then gets bigger & bigger and more destructive as it rolls along. There always is an offensive word(s) or action(s) that sets defensive actions/words into motion. I think anytime
any one of us sees that happening, we should not openly but privately try our best to point this out to the
offender rather than joining the "feud"/opponents openly - especially if it cannot be done in a respectful manner openly without further offending anyone. Maybe if enough honest members approach the offender privately, the offender will change their ways - if he/she is truly wrong.
Another curiosity I have noticed is how certain members leave a board, either silently or in a huff
(some hang around though in hide mode - not contributing much, if anything - for the bird's sake) and then all of a sudden they show up out of the blue to put their 2 cents in when there is a human personality conflict blossoming
(not talking about you specifically Mike, as your good intentions are obvious). There are also those who rarely post much on P.C. but do so often
on other boards and while on those other boards they unfairly talk disrespectfully about PC and unfairly about some of PC's members, then the cliquey gangs get together, come over here - not to help the birds but again to put in their two cents and/or try and help out their pals
(blind loyalty again, I call it anyway). Then they immediately or soon afterwards disappear back to their lairs
(on the other boards). I wonder why that is.
All these people are adding to the "drama" over here, creating some new drama themselves but run back to the other boards saying how much they hate drama = lol to me.
To sum up, I say: People
(you know who you are), if ya don't want to be a
steady contributing member here on P.C., to help the birds in all ways, then please stay over on your boards-of-choice and preach to them
(when you think needed) how they should run their boards. I personally have all the faith in the world that the M.T.
(management team) here at P.C. will fairly resolve all the problems that crop up here. They really don't need outside "help". I have seen no better M.T. anywhere in all the years I have been frequenting bird boards on the internet. I may disagree with how a couple/few of them handle certain situations and problems but I think in the long run, it will all work out - we all learn from each other and get better in the decision making process - as time goes by.
So Graeh, I just read over all I have just stated and yes, there is only good intent for both human and bird contained therein - however I am sure there will be some misinterpretation by some. Should I now go back and take the time to try and figure out whether or not I could have said each sentence in a better/clearer way, so as to please everyone? Nope, I don't think so.
Have a good day ya'll, I have to get back to tending to my flock.