I'm just going to come out and tell you all the story. Sydney is soo unhappy, we have to give Charly so much attention right now and he is VERY angry about it. Keith (hubby) and Syd are very close, but I need him to help me give meds, wrap her, etc...and Syd is just having a fit. Ok the hard part, Keith and I have friends that live 4 houses down the street that we have known for years, our families grew up together and the Chuck has been coming over everyday to play with Sydney THANK GOD. We all sat down today for coffee, like we do most days and Chuck mentioned that he and Robin would love to have Sydney come live with them. Chuck is a retired (early, medical) Police officer and is home all day, Robin his wife works 3 days a week, all of their children are grown and on their own. They have one dog a little cocker spaniel and a good size home with a perfect sized sun room in the front of their house.
I just don't know what to do, I just got him back, but he seems so not happy until he sees Chuck. I would love it opinions any and all no matter what they are. Am I crazy thinking about this? If you're mad at me for thinking it no problem I totally understand.

Oh, Wendy, my heart aches for you and the decision you feel you need to make. Can Sydeny live with them until Charly is better then take it from there? It's tough and I really feel for you. Good luck! I know I'm not much help but understand.

Wendy, I can understand your position and what you are going through at the moment. It may be better to let Sydney live with your friend down the street, in fact it could be a win, win situation. You will be able to check on Sydney and be able to help your neighbor should he need help with the bird. I feel it is very important for birds to be happy in their day to day lives, it they are not we need to do something to help them feel better.

You have to make a very tough decision but I know you will make the right one!

I think I know how you must feel, maybe let Sydney decide where he wants to live. It does not have to be adoption or even a permanent foster situation but ultimately it must be what is in the birdies best interest and happiness. 4 houses is not far.

Wendy, my heart breaks for you with the tough decision you're faced with. I know this wouldn't have even crossed your mind if you weren't so aware of Sydney's needs and wanting him to be happy. I do believe Sydney may be telling you best he can, that he has picked his chosen one. If you decide to let Sydney go, it sounds like Chuck is a good choice and you'll still be able to see Sydney.

Oh Sweetie... I would not want to be in your shoes. I think you got some good advice here.... and the nice thing is that you know where he is, how he is being cared for and it's only a hop, skip and a jump from where you live!

I think many times, we want to do what is best for our fids but we worry about what our "other birdie parronts" are going to think. As long as you feel you are doing what is best for Charlie, then go for it!!

thank you all so much, I think that I am going to try it out, after all he will be just down the street, and I think that they both will benefit from it. Chuck (friend) told us to be sure to come over anytime we like.

Didn't you get that huge double macaw cage? Quite a hacienda Sydney is going to have!

Yes I did he is going to have one heck of a home. They have a cage as 4 years ago they brought a baby Ekkie that passed after 5 months from a local breeder,,,,I can't remember her name but I think you would know it she had alot of babies pass away that she had sold. So Sydney is going with the new stand and the new cage, the cage they have is way big enough for Charly and they kept it nice. Tomorrow he is going to powerwash it, he is sooo excited, keith called him a bit ago. Keith is really going to miss him, however all he has to do is walk a couple feet away and there he will be I really think this will work out well for everyone. I hope that Syd thinks so too,,,he is going to have 2 dads...and he really likes Chuck. Thank you all again for the great advice and kind words.

No, I don't, but if you would PM me with the name, I'd appreciate it. We only deal with a select number of breeders, but it's always good to know who to stay clear of just in case.