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03-24-2008, 07:34 AM
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#1 | | | OK, I need help. Big time! Hi guys,
I hope I don't sound like a freak here, but Ryan is driving me completely out of my mind and has been for almost a week now.
For some reason, he stopped saying everything that he has learned and is now only saying "Hello." He's not just saying it, he's repeating it over and over again non-freaking stop.
I have not changed anything at all, nothing! This morning was the worst. I take him out and put him on his tree with fruit as I always do. He did not touch the fruit and began saying hello over and over again. I then bring him into the bathroom with me, as I always do, to blow dry my hair. Rather than play with his toys like he usually does, he sat right in front of me saying hello over and over again. I then bring him into my room to finish getting ready, as I always do. He sat on my dresser and said hello over and over again.
It got so bad that I had to leave the room, shut the door and as Camille once said, count to 10, as I was about to either scream or break down into tears out of complete frustration.
I have tried ignoring it, he gets worse. I have tried saying something else in response such as "what are you doing" or "come here, " etc, he still says hello. These are things that he knows how to say.
I am desperate. For almost a week now I have heard nothing but hello, which would be fine, but he is beyond repeating now, it's non-stop.
So please, someone, anyone, help! Any suggestions, please!! |
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03-24-2008, 08:15 AM
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#7 | | | Re: OK, I need help. Big time! Ok, Ryan is a male Zon, right? Refresh my memory, Wendy, how old is he? If he's old enough to be hormonal, this is the time of year for it, and though you say nothing's changed, the recent time change, the onset of spring and the resulting hormones could well be change enough to throw him for a loop. I like Karen's idea of changing the routine, but it may or may not make a difference. It probably is a phase, and yes, you should try to figure out what might be causing it and try to address it that way, but as to the behavior itself, the best thing you can do is to ignore it completely. Very probably it won't last long. I know, in the meantime it can be really stressful. Try to let it just wash over you, and when it really gets to you, walk away and get out of the house for a few minutes. I think once he discovers that he's not getting what he wants (reaction, attention, whatever) from you, he'll stop doing it. Pay attention to him when he's quiet (or at least not endlessly repeating hello), and just turn and walk away when he's doing it. Otherwise, don't let him see you react to it. Beyond trying to figure out why he's doing it, that's really all you can do.
Edit: Ok, at a year old, its not hormones. Just something he's gotten stuck on, most likely.
Last edited by Quito's Qage; 03-24-2008 at 08:18 AM.
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03-24-2008, 08:25 AM
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#10 | | | Re: OK, I need help. Big time! Quote:
Originally Posted by NJMini Leigh, thank you!! I was feeling so guilty and so frustrated, asking myself what I have done to cause this! Ryan was learning so much and then all of a sudden just stopped it all.
Oh and believe me, I've been tossing the thought of getting another bird back and forth now. The red front that I was going to buy had trouble with the mother feeding it seeds which got caught in his crop. He needed surgery and will not be sold.
I would love to have another bird, but I think after this episode, it will be a while before I do! | Im so happy you have reconsidered that! When they are a joy, bird fever kicks in. I had it big time! I wanted 1 of every species. Now that Ive experienced the most annoying moments, I dont even desire to go to the bird store! Im so happy I dont have bird fever anymore! I do think this will pass though and he will move on to something else. Like I tell myself. try to hang in there! Cry and go out for a walk! |
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