Since I brought up clicker training, I thought I'd make a post about exactly what it is and how it's helped me and Cleo. clicker training is also used for dogs and horses. Maybe other animals too. Maybe even humans.

Clicker training uses a clicker and a target stick to bridge the gap between you and the bird. The bird is given a treat for accomplishing a task. It conditions the bird to getting INSTANT confirmation that it accomplished the goal. and a reward (treat) is on the way. By this quick bridging, it also increases trust between you and the bird.
You only need a dog-training clicker, a toy clicker or anything that can give immediate nano-second feedback to the bird. Some people cluck or tick with their mouths to substitue the click.
The target stick is used as a bridge to get the bird to get close/touch or work with the desired thing.
The reward is up to you. It has to be something that the bird really wants as a treat. Some people just reward with verbal praise and a pat on the head. It's whatever gets the job done.
Animals are used to working for what they want and enjoying the rewards. In bird's cases, they enjoy the reward AND your praise AND spending time with you AND the accomplishment. So, it's a very good thing to increase bond between you and your bird.
I started ground up with Cleo. I got the target stick, in her case a bright colored pencil and clicked her for just touching the end of it with her beak. She touches it in my right hand, left hand has the clicker at the same time, CLICK then stop and give a treat. Only after a few times they figure out that the click means "hey...a good thing is coming to me now!".
Once they get that down with the target stick, you can move to other things. It has to do with the TOUCH part of it all.
Cleo then TOUCHED the shower ring..click/treat (c/t)
Cleo opend her beak and took the shower ring....c/t
Cleo held the shower ring in her mouth....c/t
Cleo let me touch the cup to the shower ring when it's in her beak...c/t
Cleo then held the shower ring in her beak, and moved one foot towards the cup and touched it wth the ring..c/t.
Cleo allowed me to put the cup under the ring in her mouth...c/t
Cleo dropped the shower ring in the cup when I pushed upward a little bit with the cup...c/t
And finally, until she walked across the cage with the ring in her mouth and put it in the cup...BIG c/t!
It's all graduated up from one nanosecond response of touch/click/treat/praise.
Always remove the props they are not toys.
In the beginning schedule two or so simple training sessions a day when they are in a good mood.
Always end the session on somthing they do that gets them a treat. Never leave on an unsuccesful note.
Only click once for a reward.
Train in a neutral room where the bird is not feeling dominant.
Only click when it is done correctly but be ready to fire on a nano second cause they associate whatever just occured with the treat. Not later when you have time to get the treat in the hand. That's why clicker training works. It's a time issue.
U can get a clicker at a toystore, petstore. They can be dog clickers.
Mind you that clicker training did NOT get Cleo to stepup. IT's not a cureall.It's a bridge. Clicker training did increase her trust of me to work with her on stepups. Some will tell you that a bird can do anything if clicker trained properly. That's just not correct.
So, hope this helps anyone wanting to clicker train,
Mark