Every time I try to login to the chat room All I get is "Guest can't login now!" or "This username doesn't exist" or Wrong password! HELP! PLEASE?????????????

Leah, are you trying to log in to the wrong chat room? That's all I can think of right now. I can't get in there myself on this computer until Adobe Flash Player downloads. Looks like there are folks in there, so the chat room must be working.

It' the first chatroom on top. I am in with firefox.

Is the Adobe Flash Player free? Where could I download it?

For me, the chat room software itself prompted me to download the player the first time I clicked on chat.
If that doesn't work, you should be able to get it from Adobe. Just google Adobe Flash Player.