valo loves me, and me alone... he's (unfortunately) only snuggly and cute with me, though he sometimes will sit with strangers without problems OUTSIDE of his territory.... bella is better, but she's not too keen on women since she currently lives in an all-male household
though i'm not supposed to laugh, it sometimes cracks me up to watch him - there's this 68g little birdie sitting on my shoulder, puffing up around the neck and signaling the 100kg tall, muscular human man "to bring it on" (granted, everybody has respect for valo LOL

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